What denominates commonality?

Stop and think before you label yourself as being the “common denominator” in most situations. Instead, ask yourself, “am I outnumbered by people who don’t really get me?” More often than not, we try to explain ourselves to people who frustrate us because deep down, we know they aren’t really listening to our heart. You …

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Reputation of hypocrisy or dismissal?

Christianity has basically become a cuss word,  I won’t even use it to describe myself,  I just say ‘Jesus follower’ and keep it that because most people should be offended when told that the way they live their life is wrong in comparison to the next guy. This common complaint among church is huge and …

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Compassion when in conflict

Everyone has suffered and life is hard, there will not be an escape from the storms. How you go through them however, can make or break you. I have lived through severe circumstances that left me for dead, but my Internal Family System fought for my survival on my behalf. I want to share my …

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codependency is nurtured

Our society has been overtaken by codependency because it always takes root generationally. When we need to persuade, influence or control others so that our internal emotions can calm down, we have lost our self. We are not responsible for how others behave or react to our behavior because everyone misbehaves at times. To recognize …

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Prophetically sarcastic movie parallels

How many more movies as of date have foreshadowed the times?  Prophetically speaking, when something has made it to the silver screen, someone has already thought the subject into existence or lived it, which equates to a manifestation of reality.  This list of movies is hardly comprehensive because the video was made four years ago …

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Internal Rivalry

Therapy Letters http://www.angeladandrews.com If nature was the litmus test for raising the child up as it should go, all of us would know our worth as the spiritual beings God created us to be.  We lost sight of who we were naturally, through the lack of healthy nurture, so we sabotage good things and push away …

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Internal sibling rivalry

Everyone has an internal family system waiting to let go of beliefs and lies that promote sibling rivalry between its parts. Arguments inside your system stem from polarized viewpoints on a subject much like a brother and sister conflicting with each other in the outside world. For every disconnect in relationship there is a part …

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my mom in male form

Something about that dynamic between two people, where one executes all of the power through maltreatment of the other, didn't fit for me anymore as an adult. It just feels mean and creates fear in me because I can't be myself around him.  Here I am again, disturbed as soon as he left because I …

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Three Little Words

I’d like to address reading this memoir “Three Little Words” from the perspective of an aspiring author who wishes to publish a similar story, my own.  I write down testimonies as they return to my memory just as this book captured the thematic childhood of those of us who have felt un-wanted throughout the course …

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And a little child will lead them

I tend to get lost in movies because it allows me to live a pseudo life for the next two hours.  I see every life experience depicted in a movie as a correlation between my own and the characters that represent the most growth and introspection.  The movie “Losing Isaiah’, pulled on my heart strings …

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