The easiest way to not waste your time on the dating scene is to seek the love found in your closest friends, and apply that to a life partner. It will cut the time wasted on potential men who lack empathy, expression and accountability, in half. This year, I discovered girl friends who helped me find my worth and value in Gods eyes through their devotion, support and love. Once you experience that, you can’t go back. An impartation of truth raises the standard in ones heart. The One whom God has for me will be able to offer the same, for it is a natural response to freely give away what you have received as a gift from heaven.