Strange omits secrects

carry the anointing wherever you go and you won’t have to scare people into salvation through the message of damnation. Be real, be kind and be authentic because the world will always know a fake. Scripture shaming and professing doesn’t mean you are “right living”, in fact it means you are hiding something. Accountability and …

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Mandatory Ministry Mistakes

There is no abstinence programor list of rules that are going to free you from yourself because they apply knowledge instead of heartfelt compassion. Christians can be the most judgmental of psychology because they want to pray emotions away or blame it on the devil instead. My question is,"what happens when you perform andtow the …

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no more condemnation

Here I am emotionally exposed to the person I once was just a year ago and recognizing how much I have grown.  I almost can't believe it, that I'm able to pray for my spirit and to pray down the anxiety that wants to well up inside of me and condemn me.  I think of …

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Shaming the scapegoat into secrecy

Too often, like in cases like mine, my abuser deeply wounded me within and I questioned why God put me in a family where betrayal was the norm. The act of trauma was a layer upon the already existing unwantedness in the womb, and my unbelief in authority figures and God felt like the same …

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Unashamed of my abortion

The many facets of my life can be collected in a storybook of healing. I have listened to countless stories from many people in their brokenness but the underlying message is one of shame and guilt. It is because I share my weaknesses like the Apostle Paul that I am unashamed of my abortion many …

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Lack thereof parenting

Parenting is at all time low these days with numerous numbers complaining about the behavior of their wayward children. That is always the first sign that they are the problem as a role model. A child only mimics and repeats what he hears and takes in through his senses while in the presence of authority …

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Why, I don’t understand

Why?  I've always asked why but never found the answer.  Asking why always left me with more questions so I built a defense mechanism through strength which allowed me to move on and focus on "doing" something about the facts instead of feeling the emotions.  If I asked myself, "what am I going to do …

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