Emotional Octopus tentacles

After preparing my own octopus dish and relating it to my love life, I gained a deeper revelation about the ways I have been suckered into entangling relationships because I hadn't taken time to be alone first.  I can handle a lot of physical pain because I have had to live with it most of …

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Rebounding into relationships

Rebound relationships seldom make it for the long haul because grieving the death of relationship is similar to a loved one dying.  When I interviewed a man who had been re-married for 20 plus years he simply stated that he regretted not being alone before starting to date again.  Loneliness has a way  of interfering …

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