Housing my thoughts

Entry to my soul may appear to be dismal and bleak as I walk through the archway, but it really is an encasing to narrow the way inside without distraction from moving forward. Much like my life, the anticipation of addressing what is on the other side of desire can be a consequence or lighted …

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Treasuring my NO

I relate to many of my female clients when they share about the sexual shame they carry because of giving into a man’s request. Before I started doing parts work, I felt I had to give into anyones sexual desires because it was expected. Someone wanted something from me so lt felt like I was …

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What denominates commonality?

Stop and think before you label yourself as being the “common denominator” in most situations. Instead, ask yourself, “am I outnumbered by people who don’t really get me?” More often than not, we try to explain ourselves to people who frustrate us because deep down, we know they aren’t really listening to our heart. You …

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Declaring our brain can re-wire

I’m going to get down to the science of it all and speak to my mind, soul and heart which houses multiple parts, so I can get comfortable in my skin and my surroundings. For all the ways in which I have taken in negative messages through my senses, and have suffered physiologically, emotionally, and …

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We attach to survive

Before we make sense of the world, the world shapes our mind. If what we take in through our senses conveys to our brain that we don’t have safety or acceptance in the world, we conclude negative things about who we are in it. Nurture begins the day we are birthed and it can greatly …

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Relating to your “reminders”

There is more right going on inside of you than wrong. I know it’s been a habit that you react a certain way, or have become accustomed to behaving badly at moments, but those routines are often wrapped up in criticism. Reminding ourselves of what we’re doing wrong or should be doing better, just gives …

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Emotions aren’t demons

Lord help those who shame others for being depressed, anxiety struck or sick because that says more about them than the ones they are addressing. And how does anyone else know more about his neighbor than what his neighbor has lived through? Let me re-phrase, "How does anyone else know more about me than I …

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Disarmed

“Those exposed to acute and chronic stress by their childhood conditioning, lost their ability to engage in the necessary fight or flight behavior, and were impaired as a result. It left them open as targets for illness. The fundamental problem is not the external stress, such as the life events where tragedy arose, but an …

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Religion is relinquished

The reason why many question God’s goodness when they wonder where he was when they chanted scripture like a mantra, has to do with relationship. Satan quoted scripture, how else will knowledge puff up? Big deal, plenty of worldly people are successful for studying what other people don’t take the time to. You are called …

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Liberty on Father’s Day

I grew up on 1810 Liberty Rd and received the scripture Matt 18:10 about three years ago when I was reconciling my heart to my Father in heaven and my earthly one. These truths can break down damage done in childhood but only when inner healing takes place. Much of my own journey has utilized …

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