The devil doesn’t do squat

I get a lot of requests for elaboration on blaming the devil verses needing personal accountability.  For me, I’m not hosting demons because I’ve been delivered of the strongman and religious spirit, so I see emotional battles as an inner healing thing which we will always be working out through sanctification.  It's not casting down demons but …

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Biblical basis for IFS Therapy

I do not go over history or experiences because my role as an IFS Practitioner is to turn you inward to hear the voice of God in each and every memory where pain originated and on the multiple levels that one memory can hold.  IFS is a way to rewire a negative pathway and bring …

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Dysmorphic Identity

As an incest survivor and spending my whole life in and out of treatment for an eating disorder and body dysmorphia, I now counsel others who suffer from complex trauma. Most of my clients had terrorizing childhoods and almost all suffered a breech in personal boundaries through touch. If a child can't protect itself, it …

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Therapy for the sinful parts

Psychologically feeding the needs of readers through the written word. I have crossed state lines and country borders to study family and human behavior in hopes of healing my own complex trauma. Without fear of using my own stories and experiences to highlight the topics that most choose to deny, my journey of healing has …

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The Covering

The idea to create a quick read from the parent to a child evolved after three years of working with teens through IFS Therapy, who were quieted through control, religion or other persuasions from a role model. In hopes that a light would turn-on inside the adult, I longed to bring illumination to teaching and …

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Healing the Internal Chronic Parts

I left the Internal medicine practice in tears and didn't realize someone in the parking lot could hear me crying until she called out to ask if I was okay. A woman of sweet countenance approached me and just hugged me as I held my paperwork form the doc's office close to my chest and …

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Dear Younger me

Dear Younger Me, As I address those little eyes which have cried and cried and cried, my right hand covers my heart for connection to your compassionate expression.  Made to believe that your sensitivity was a weakness, that your hypervigilance was unnecessary, or that your voice screeched in the heads of those around you; you …

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My frustrated part

I get the "waiting" for a part to give permission to share, but my frustrated part feels like that concept mimics the idea of believing one needs to "know why" or understand before freedom can manifest, reminds me of hoping for an apology so one can forgive. My frustrated part sums this up as a …

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Enlarging Territory

I know that prayer is the greatest thing to help spread the messages that we have so I am asking for my territory to be enlarged so I can counsel people into their life purpose.  If you know of anyone who wants to work on healing parts of them that they still struggle with.  My work …

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Disordered parts don’t define us

I struggled with a chemical imbalance that diagnosed me with depression that manifested as an impending doom cloud each day I opened my eyes for over three decades. That type of imbalance trailed throughout many of the psycho-somatic ailments that Doctors believed were my lot in life, but they weren't. Nobody could offer the anecdote …

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