Walking with instead of away

If anything is allowed than everything will heighten because #humanity is #searching for #significance and we do that through #relationships   If #we #believe that a #homosexual #lifestyle is worse than a #lustful #heterosexual one than we have #blinders on our #hearts and cannot #see the #behavior of another as s #symptom of a #deeper …

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Who are you?

Who are you? I was asked this question when I started volunteering with a ministry over 13 years ago.  I responded with personality traits and characteristics that I felt were godly. With each answer that I gave, they kept asking me the same question, “who are you”?  After about 15 times I was getting frustrated and finally …

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Social media made me do it

I think people give social media too much credit for determining #gender and #eating habits because the #truth of the matter is that confusion concerning those topics, always begins in the home. If there is no #allowance for #expression than a child turns inward. If there is sexual abuse, #identity is breeched and becomes a …

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The parts that lie to us

My scientist friend shared she was feeling inadequate after completing her PhD because she didn’t pursue publication of her research, in essence she was being bullied by a cluster of parts within her system. These parts who remind her of inadequacies encompass the bully, critic, failure, less than, angry, depressed and fighter parts. They often …

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Murder gene is bound to emerge

She has boobs and I thought that was a dead give away, but apparently, nothing is certain anymore. Since man does not trust God, and since the world has persuaded the church to embrace dogma as the remedy for all of their pain, we have a society seeking self-rule, freedom from the imagined tyranny of …

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Denying the abundance available

I don’t know if that’s possible in America where popping pills is the new money making anecdote and the rise of psychiatric hospital exams indicate that many people feel vulnerable to someone else in authority, to tell them who they really are.  Nobody stable was able to shower them with love and acceptance from a …

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Rogue at work

I have always quit my jobs or been fired from them unless it was an enterprise that I started or managed.  Maybe I'm a power junkie and need to utilize my decision making for big purposes because the mundane, routine operations of waitressing bore me and make me feel constricted.  I know it's easy to …

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bye bye bikini’s

I hope the chics who want to both lift weights and climb the corporate ladder chill out just a bit and seek some peace before describing all females as feminists.  Why so strong, so gruff and in-your-face about being equivalent to a man?  It was a necessary step in wave one of feminism to declare …

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Trouble with the Curve

This two and a half movie clip is about the questions many of us ask when we are abandoned, rejected, misunderstood or confused because of another person's response to us.  Particularly, when adult children address their parents about an issue they grew up questioning, the response is much like what we see in Clint Eastwood's …

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