TikTok truths

When there is a trend that half of the population adapts to and then it is removed, a trial test was run. I worked in the hoods of Baltimore and Savannah for a combined 12 years and our government would test reactions to half truths in this demographic all the time through removing textbooks, encouraging cell phone …

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Treasuring my NO

I relate to many of my female clients when they share about the sexual shame they carry because of giving into a man’s request. Before I started doing parts work, I felt I had to give into anyones sexual desires because it was expected. Someone wanted something from me so lt felt like I was …

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Walking with instead of away

If anything is allowed than everything will heighten because #humanity is #searching for #significance and we do that through #relationships   If #we #believe that a #homosexual #lifestyle is worse than a #lustful #heterosexual one than we have #blinders on our #hearts and cannot #see the #behavior of another as s #symptom of a #deeper …

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Declaring our brain can re-wire

I’m going to get down to the science of it all and speak to my mind, soul and heart which houses multiple parts, so I can get comfortable in my skin and my surroundings. For all the ways in which I have taken in negative messages through my senses, and have suffered physiologically, emotionally, and …

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Who are you?

Who are you? I was asked this question when I started volunteering with a ministry over 13 years ago.  I responded with personality traits and characteristics that I felt were godly. With each answer that I gave, they kept asking me the same question, “who are you”?  After about 15 times I was getting frustrated and finally …

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Parenting patterns will play out

Where do we think patterns that play out in society come from? The home. Yup, I just said that. To the degree of illogical treatment toward each other in the family of origin is the degree in which it repeats itself in the world we create outside of it. Heal your childhood and you will …

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turbulent testimony

If I didn’t even trust Daddy with my life anymore, how could I ever trust the people He places in it?  My intimacy with Daddy had almost come to a standstill and it was affecting the closest person to me, my boyfriend. I wanted him to help me with life instead of the One who …

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How honor is upheld

Honor is tempering your knowledge for someone else to share on his position while extending curiosity to a different way of thinking. Honor doesn't demand it's own way. And it doesn't sit silently waiting for the other person to stop speaking so he can drive home another point as to why you are incorrect. If …

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Your Apple doesn’t roll far from Your Tree

Whenever I hear a parent complain to me about her kid, I take a deep breath and let my cheeks fill up with the air for dramatic effect before I blow it out with an exasperated sigh to accompany it.  Here's the deal parents: you haven't dealt with your own inner child and therefore you …

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