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Parenting patterns will play out

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Where do we think patterns that play out in society come from? The home. Yup, I just said that. To the degree of illogical treatment toward each other in the family of origin is the degree in which it repeats itself in the world we create outside of it. Heal your childhood and you will …

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Your Apple doesn’t roll far from Your Tree

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Whenever I hear a parent complain to me about her kid, I take a deep breath and let my cheeks fill up with the air for dramatic effect before I blow it out with an exasperated sigh to accompany it.  Here's the deal parents: you haven't dealt with your own inner child and therefore you …

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my mom in male form

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Something about that dynamic between two people, where one executes all of the power through maltreatment of the other, didn't fit for me anymore as an adult. It just feels mean and creates fear in me because I can't be myself around him.  Here I am again, disturbed as soon as he left because I …

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