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confessions from an unwanted stripper

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In thinking about myself and believing I was un-wanted, I remember expecting everyone to eventually leave.  It didn't take long to learn that I could shield myself from abandonment by being the first to walk away.  Sometimes I would sabotage a connection to see if the outcome was predicted.  For a decade I had sex …

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Dating a man with Mommy issues.

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I always circle back to dating topics because love makes the world go round, unless of course a guy has mommy issues.  This is where you put your big girl pants on and use the data given in the beginning stages to not invest in a relationship where you have to dumb yourself down for …

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Connection begins with somebody who identifies with you.

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Why is it that so many of us are looking for a mate to complete us, fix us, enhance our lives or define us?  I have to admit, I was needy for a time and settled for a warm body beside me because I thought I could bring out the best in him.  But, he …

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Reverence in retro-spect

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1/19/14 I had the privilege of crossing paths with a woman seven years ago who would greatly shake the foundation of my belief system.  I was unaware of her strong determination and passionate approach toward God because she stands at 4 feet something and has a “little” demeanor, obviously because she is so petite.   The …

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