Through friends eyes

The easiest way to not waste your time on the dating scene is to seek the love found in your closest friends, and apply that to a life partner. It will cut the time wasted on potential men who lack empathy, expression and accountability, in half. This year, I discovered girl friends who helped me …

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To stop the tanning tracks

There are moments we have that stop us in our tracks, tell us to slow down and soak up the intrigue of belief in something bigger than us.  This past week, such a moment occurred in my life through the interaction with a business that I was about to give up on.  I'm pretty loyal and …

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House Rules

I'm not throwing shade, I'm just trying to shed some light on the darkness. If teenagers were understood by their parents, there wouldn't be a problem with that stage of development, ever. But most rents can't communicate with their teens if the subject of faith is on the line."House Rules" generally demand that church going, …

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Emotional Octopus tentacles

After preparing my own octopus dish and relating it to my love life, I gained a deeper revelation about the ways I have been suckered into entangling relationships because I hadn't taken time to be alone first.  I can handle a lot of physical pain because I have had to live with it most of …

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Living me

Most people are annoyed in life because they never meet their goals. I need to meet my goals. I have accomplished much but still have bigger dreams to attain. Th saying goes, "Commit yourself to the how and the way will come". I really don't know what I can't do. I'll try anything once and …

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Indecent Proposals

Success is hardly defined as having money, I can make my own money, its successful love that I need. If I should meet a special someone one day I suspect I will love him with all my heart and pursue life as a couplehood from that moment forward. I've decided, it's ok to date with …

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Rebounding into relationships

Rebound relationships seldom make it for the long haul because grieving the death of relationship is similar to a loved one dying.  When I interviewed a man who had been re-married for 20 plus years he simply stated that he regretted not being alone before starting to date again.  Loneliness has a way  of interfering …

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WAFFLEHOUSE & Wild Encounters

"Please don't air out all of my personal relationship rifts in front of all these people", was all I could think when the Pastor acknowledged my single-hood from the pulpit.  I thought for sure that my deepest, darkest sins were going to be put on blast before a group of strangers and let's face it, …

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Mental stimulation surpasses sex

Last time I checked a guy out with a glance over, was last weekend.  He had the physical attributes that I found appealing and seemed nice enough.  The key words are, "nice enough", because the description screams apathy, and is indeed applicable here.  As soon as I gazed upon him for 5 seconds I quickly …

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