Liberty on Father’s Day

I grew up on 1810 Liberty Rd and received the scripture Matt 18:10 about three years ago when I was reconciling my heart to my Father in heaven and my earthly one. These truths can break down damage done in childhood but only when inner healing takes place. Much of my own journey has utilized …

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Forgiving Us

Don’t grab what God hasnt granted. Our biggest messes occur when we help God bring about some thing that we want, especially in the area of relationships. I have done it so many times where I had an interest in somebody and cultivated expectation in my mind of his ability to be for me what …

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Going LOW to gain something

My focus on writing my book has made video snippets a fun reprieve from spending most days with pen to paper. Trying to manage time that gets caught up in the thinking process can be frustrating, but dealing with people as the alternative takes a lot of exhausting energy. So my latest adventure with getting …

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Biblical basis for IFS Therapy

I do not go over history or experiences because my role as an IFS Practitioner is to turn you inward to hear the voice of God in each and every memory where pain originated and on the multiple levels that one memory can hold.  IFS is a way to rewire a negative pathway and bring …

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Love around to me

I realized as I was reflecting on my own disillusionment with dating and plutonic relationships that I always felt safer in one that was non-committal and never trusted consistency in another, but both were lies that told me to keep searching for the perfect "one". It wasn’t until I heard a message that explained one …

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Circling Circumstances

I think it is wild how the prophetic words I get have about a 10 year manifestation period. I started quoting from Corrie tenBoom years ago and bought the book as gifts. Not suddenly, but appearing as suddenly, everyone is circulating quotes. I’m understanding it is because The Lord wants me to pray for the …

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Parenting patterns will play out

Where do we think patterns that play out in society come from? The home. Yup, I just said that. To the degree of illogical treatment toward each other in the family of origin is the degree in which it repeats itself in the world we create outside of it. Heal your childhood and you will …

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Phillips Restaurant Retires

The closing of Phillips Crabhouse seems so surreal because it launched me into independence after graduating high school. I was kicked out at age 15 and became resourceful quick, learning that the restaurant industry was a lucrative business and when living at the beach was an option, I jumped on it. I was so different …

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Can’t report what isn’t known

Many people don’t consider a parent’s rage as being abnormal because living through it is their normal. Many don’t consider physical abuse as being abnormal because living through it is their normal. Many don’t consider their parent abandoning them, never knowing them or scapegoating them is neglect, because unfortunately it is all they know. Every …

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Dysmorphic Identity

As an incest survivor and spending my whole life in and out of treatment for an eating disorder and body dysmorphia, I now counsel others who suffer from complex trauma. Most of my clients had terrorizing childhoods and almost all suffered a breech in personal boundaries through touch. If a child can't protect itself, it …

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