If anything is allowed than everything will heighten because #humanity is #searching for #significance and we do that through #relationships   If #we #believe that a #homosexual #lifestyle is worse than a #lustful #heterosexual one than we have #blinders on our #hearts and cannot #see the #behavior of another as s #symptom of a #deeper #pain that fuels decisions and actions.  None of us are without #sin and to determine another person’s actions as being #unforgivable takes arrogance as a #christian to a whole new level.  #parts within our #internalfamilysystems help us #survive and they cling onto people for comfort because the search for #love is innate.  Sleeping around is a problem for any of us just like p0rn is because they #steal #intimacy through connection and replace it with selfish gratification that brings personal #shame afterward.  The anecdote to lifestyles that are seeking love in all the wrong places is to walk beside them without judgement so they turn to themselves and heal the parts of them still suffering from childhood voids that they still long to fill.  Beyond a #spirit it is a need to embrace #innerhealing and that requires safe believers to see the person in the same purity as a child before an affliction and to support change that can happen from the inside out, not something outside of him or her as the culprit.